Why My Name Is Paige
My name’s Elysha Paige - but it wasn’t always that. This is my third surname - and no I’ve never been married.
Two years ago, I decided I didn’t want something as important as my name to be a trophy for the man it belonged to. Especially, one who is absent and / or abusive - so I changed it to one that no man could claim; Paige.
I see my name change as the first critical step in reclaiming my authentic self, there have been many more steps after that and a lot more ahead.
Publishing this blog is the current step. A step that’s been years in the making since many of the early articles in this blog will be those that have been sat half written on my laptop for a while that I’ve been too scared to finish or share.
Nothing that I write in here represents the "final version" of me and I feel like that’s what I’ve been waiting for before I share - but that means I’ll literally never share anything until I’m like 100 years old. I’m growing and experiencing new things so my world view is always changing.
So… here is my blog… I’ll take comfort in the fact that few people will be reading but for those of you who do, thanks for being interested, or at the least - a bit nosey!
Cheers,
Elysha Paige X
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